By | May 30, 2025

How To Avoid Nursing Home Taking Your Home

Avoiding a nursing home from taking your home typically means planning ahead to protect your assets—especially if you may need Medicaid to cover long-term care. Without planning, your home may be used to recover Medicaid expenses after you pass through the Medicaid Estate Recovery Program (MERP).

Here’s a clear breakdown of how to avoid losing your home to nursing home costs or Medicaid recovery:

🏠 Key Strategies to Avoid Losing Your Home to Nursing Home Costs

1. Understand Medicaid Rules in Your State

  • Medicaid can cover nursing home care if you meet income and asset limits.
  • In many states, your primary residence is exemptwhile you’re alive if:
    • You live in it or intend to return to it.
    • A spouse, minor child, or disabled relative lives there.

⚠️ But after your death, Medicaid may place a lien on your home to recover costs.

2. Transfer the Home (Cautiously)

  • Gifting the home to a child or relative can protect it—but Medicaid has a 5-year lookback period.
    • Any transfer within 5 years may trigger penalties and make you ineligible for Medicaid temporarily.
  • Consider only if you’re planning well in advance.

3. Set Up a Life Estate Deed

  • You remain in your home for life, and after death, it automatically transfers to a beneficiary (often a child).
  • Since the home doesn’t go through probate, Medicaid cannot recover against it in most states.
  • This may still count as a transfer for the 5-year rule—timing matters.

4. Use an Irrevocable Trust

  • Place your home in a Medicaid Asset Protection Trust.
  • You can’t access the principal, but you may retain the right to live in it.
  • After 5 years, the home is protected from Medicaid recovery.

🧠 Must be done at least 5 years before applying for Medicaid.

5. Keep a Spouse in the Home

  • If you’re married and go into a nursing home, the home is protected as long as your spouse lives there.
  • Medicaid cannot force its sale while your spouse is alive and living in it.

6. Avoid Probate

  • Use estate planning tools like:
    • Transfer-on-death (TOD) deed or beneficiary deed
    • Joint ownership with rights of survivorship
  • These bypass probate and may avoid Medicaid recovery, depending on your state.

7. Consult an Elder Law Attorney

  • Every state has different Medicaid rules.
  • A certified elder law attorney can help:
    • Draft a trust or life estate deed
    • Navigate Medicaid planning
    • Minimize the impact of MERP

✅ Summary: Best Protection Steps

StrategyBest IfRisk LevelMedicaid-Safe?
Irrevocable TrustYou plan 5+ years aheadLow
Life Estate DeedYou want to retain home useMedium✅ (with timing)
Gifting HomeYou don’t need Medicaid for 5+ yearsHigh❌ if too soon
Keeping Spouse in HomeYou’re marriedLow
TOD/Beneficiary DeedYou want to avoid probateLow✅ in many states